On: Flossing

I don’t know when I really started flossing.  It feels like I was about 18, but it was probably more like 25.  My mom can correct me if I’m wrong, but I’m pretty sure that I started when I was older than 3.

When we took Adria to her first dentist appointment, the dentist was impressed with her general oral hygiene, but told us that we should be brushing her teeth twice a day, and flossing the space between her bottom front teeth (all of the rest of her teeth have gaps between them).  Honestly, that seemed like a lot to ask…we felt like we were doing pretty good just getting a good brushing on her teeth in the evening before bed, and making that part of the routine.

Well, a few days ago Amanda grabbed a bag of “fun flossers,” which are just a set of single-use plastic floss-holders, in fun colors:

Flossing is fun?

Flossing is fun?

It sounded like a nightmare to me, but….turns out, she loves it.  Not only was she willing to let me stick that string between her two front teeth, but she’ll do it herself.  And there’s more…it’s so much fun, that we can use the floss as a reward and a motivator.  Usually she drags her feet getting to the bathroom at the end of the night.  But just say, “Do you want to pick which color floss to use tonight?!” and she’ll be scampering for the door.   8)

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I’m Too Tired for That

Adria has a relatively new habit which, I must admit, I find very annoying.  Whenever we ask her to do something that she doesn’t want to do, she says, “But, Daddy, I’m too tired to do that…”  For example…  ”I’m too tired to climb into my car seat.”  ”I’m too tired to brush my teeth.”  ”I’m too tired to get my shoes on.”  It’s hard for me because this is essentially a lie.  What she means is that she doesn’t want to do it, and she knows what my response will be (“Do it anyways.”), so she says something else.  It drives me a little batty and I continue to correct her…sometimes gently, sometimes firmly.

One interesting twist to this new habit is that she sometimes phrases her statement just a little different, in a way that changes the meaning entirely.  Every now and then, she’ll actually say, “But Dadda, I’m tired of that.”  For example…  ”Adria, it’s time to brush your hair.”  ”But Daddy, I’m tired of that!”  I believe that she knows what she means, too.  Amanda and I don’t really use that phrase much, so I suspect that she picked the variation up at school.

I should also apologize for the lack of new posts lately…it’s been 9 days, which is a long time for me.  We’ve been busy…between the kitchen remodel (more on that later), Easter weekend and Amanda’s parents visiting (more on that later), a particularly intense patch of work for me, and both kids being variously sick for the last week (more on that later)…I haven’t been able to find the time.  Last night, Austin was running a fever and kept us up pretty much the whole night…we each probably got 2-3 hours of sleep, some of which were in the recliner holding a baby.

So, I wanted to blog, I really did…but I was too tired for that.   8)

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Reading, Writing, and Speaking

Adria continues to impress me with her talent for — and interest in — the English language.  She loves books.  She likes to have them read to her, and she’ll also sit quietly and flip through them by herself.  She will point to words on a sign, or a page, or a package, and ask, “Daddy, what do these words say?”  Amanda likes to tell the story about how, before she learned to read, she thought that other people could know what words went with a page “by magic.”  Not so with Adria…she already knows how letters and sounds make up words, and I’ve helped her sound out a few simple words (really simple, like “me”).

Yesterday, she told me that she wanted to write “orange” (no, I don’t know why).  She asked me what it started with, and then as she drew each letter she asked me what was next.  This what she ended up with:

O is for orange

O is for orange

Hey, not bad for a 3-year-old who clutches the pen in a white-knuckled fist, all the way up by the cap.   8)

She also continues to practice and improve on her name.  Tonight she drew this butterfly (with no help at all…it’s quite pretty), and then signed her name to it:

Another signed original by Adria

Another signed original by Adria

She is one letter transposition away from a very passable signature.  She came to show this to us, giggling that one of her A’s was upside down.  She thought it was funny that if she turned the paper over, then her butterfly and one of the A’s were right side up.

I’m not sure yet if Austin has the disposition for language or not.  I’m going to go out on a limb, though, and say yes.  He seems to really delight in the noises that he makes, and I think that he’s well aware that he’s communicating with his sounds.  He’ll make some kind of noise, and then stop and watch his audience intently to see how they react.  If you respond in kind, he’s delighted.  This works especially well with Adria…he will make a high pitched squeal, which will make her giggle, which will make him laugh.  And over, and over, and over again…   :)

Upright butterfly and one A

Upright butterfly and one A

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Happy Sounds

Here’s a long (2-minute), dark video of Austin being his usual bubbly self. We get reports from daycare every now and then that he sat by himself for a long time (10-20 minutes), playing with some simple toy, and laughing uproariously. I’ve not seen him go quite that long, but he certainly does get tickled every now and then…especially when Adria is around.

As per usual, I caught the tail end of this giggling session, but he still shows his stuff pretty well. No comment on the brief intermission in the middle. :whistle:

I was interacting with him (making faces and such) from behind the camera to keep him engaged. I think that part of the entertainment is that he is very amused with the noises that he makes.

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Playing with Big Sister

I’ve got two videos of Austin playing with Adria…with mixed results. Sometimes, it seems like she can humor him indefinitely, and she’ll sing to him and let him play with her hair, and they’ll get into a giggling match. Here they are, having a good time:

And then, occasionally, she’ll get possessive about something. The strongest reaction I’ve seen yet was when he tried to grab the handle of her milk cup right after I poured it for her…she was not going to let him have that. I caught her here, snatching a favored toy away from him. Even though he’s only 8 months old, you can see and hear his momentary disappointment. ;-(

In Adria’s defense, she was sort of playing with the boat first…and to her credit, she does seem to decide to compromise, and puts the animals within reach… [As an aside, does anyone else think that the sound he makes at 1:15 sounds exactly like R2D2?]

For the most part, Amanda and I try to take a “playground rules” approach to sharing. Kids learn a lot on the playground when they think that they aren’t under supervision, and have to resolve their differences on their own. This sometimes amounts to snatching, shoving, and screaming…but what goes around comes around, and we think that a little of that is good for the kids. I didn’t say anything when Adria snatched that boat from Austin…I think that kids need to learn how to deal with disappointment (within reason, obviously).

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Happy 8 Months!

It’s hard to believe that Austin is already 8 months old, but it’s true…happy 2/3 birthday, little turkey!

Austin in his shades at the Americana

Austin in his shades at the Americana

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March Photo Album

Highlight photos from March have been posted!  Find them here.

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Baby In The Belly

Apparently, Amanda’s pregnancy with Austin really made an impression.  She still talks about it, and now she is drawing it as well:

Amanda with a baby in her belly

Amanda with a baby in her belly

According to Adria, in this photo, we have Amanda with Adria in her belly…and then “baby Adria” and “older Adria” next to her.  I think that the spider up top is me.   xD

At one point, she told me that there was “a little floor in Momma’s belly, for me to stand on.”   :)

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Sleeping With Mom & Dad

In the 3 and a quarter years that we have had Adria, she has never — not even once — slept in bed with us.  This is half because Amanda and I really didn’t want to go down that road, and half because Adria just doesn’t like it.  If you try to lay down with her, she gets restless and feisty and the situation quickly becomes intolerable.

Well, this morning Austin woke up at about 5:30am, and Amanda went to get him.  He had overfilled his diaper, so she changed his diaper and his clothes, and then he was acting hungry so we went ahead and got him a new bottle.  At this point, it’s around 5:45am, which is early but not intolerable if one of us needed to get up with him.  Neither of us really wanted to, though, so we laid him down on the bed between us and basically just ignored him while he played quietly with the pillows, blankets, and my face.  Next thing we know, he’s asleep, and we got to snooze until my alarm went off at 6:30am:

Austin, the last one asleep in the big bed

Austin, the last one asleep in the big bed

I can’t say I’m surprised…he’s definitely a snuggler.  He loves soft and fuzzy things, and he loves to hug and cling to us when being held.  This won’t be a habit, though…the kids get their own beds.   :whistle:

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Playing on the Floor

Here’s a longish video from a few days ago, just generally showing what Austin is up to lately:

Here is a still photo from a few minutes later:

Sitting among the spoils

Sitting among the spoils

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